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Post by Deleted on May 15, 2017 15:53:22 GMT -5
Thanks for the kind wishes guys. She passed away today about 11:00. She loved corny jokes and snacks. I'm gonna miss her. Thoughts and prayers. |
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Post by porgyman on May 15, 2017 16:11:05 GMT -5
Thanks for the kind wishes guys. She passed away today about 11:00. She loved corny jokes and snacks. I'm gonna miss her. I'm sorry about your loss. Please accept my condolences. |
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Post by Gunnails on May 15, 2017 16:17:57 GMT -5
Sorry for your loss BX, my thoughts are with you in these coming months as things shake out I hope for the best.
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Post by jetstream23 on May 15, 2017 17:03:10 GMT -5
Sorry man.
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Post by tkasper01 on May 15, 2017 17:50:43 GMT -5
Thanks for the kind wishes guys. She passed away today about 11:00. She loved corny jokes and snacks. I'm gonna miss her. That sucks. My condolences to you and your family. |
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Post by quantum on May 16, 2017 10:30:15 GMT -5
condolences bxjetfan
good advice on the will
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Post by LoneStarLady on May 16, 2017 17:14:00 GMT -5
So sorry for your loss.
Try to remember the corny jokes and good times, and forget about all the fighting at the end.
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Post by Hotman on May 16, 2017 23:00:11 GMT -5
sorry buddy. Hate to hear stuff like that  |
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Post by thebigragu on May 16, 2017 23:22:04 GMT -5
Sorry about your sister in law.
I'm leaving nothing to no one. Every asshole that exited the planet in my family i got the fucking bill starting at 14. I never saw a cent. Ever. I paid and honestly most of the time i didn't even give a fuck. My grandmother in Italy died the Woman was a saint my grandmother in brooklyn was too. I had zero problems Taking care of that. They all fought like animals over that death. 6 brownstones in park slope A 60 unit apartment building on 5th as well. Rocking chairs fucking furniture. I visted this woman everyday (talking about brooklyn one here by the way). Never saw no one even my father could hardly be bothered. Fucking Saint of a woman would travel 4 hours by train to come visit me. Would do the same for baptisms confirmations birthdays all that shit till she was 86.
They stuck them both in nursing homes. At the end. One was my step grandmother not blood but she was as much as my fathers mother was to me. I pulled a fucking gun at that funeral. I was going to murder the assholes on the spot. They didn't know I was out. I got paroled a few months before and was going the nursing home and knew those pieces of shit never went. I was to late she was gone by the time i got there but remembered me immediately even with the severe dementia. I watched them Lie and fight for about 3 days before i broke the news that i had been out over 2 months and been in touch with the doctors and paid to get her a full time nurse and private room in that fucking shithole. Scumbags 99 percent of people. Money rules them all. I won't say what happened but you can bet your ass in the end nobody got anything without paying for it with their fucking soul. Me just like when i was dying in the hospital and the vultures showed up i told them go get the fuck out. My Son deals with my affairs regardless. And that little mean fuck that hes become knows I'll be ten times more intimidating in death then i ever was in life.
End rant. Long month. Go fuck yourselves except op in this instance 1 time
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Post by thebigragu on May 17, 2017 0:02:20 GMT -5
I thought i was done sorry I'm not. Don't mean to hijack this thread but it seems i cant help my fucking self.
Now The only 2 people that ever cared about me more then their own kids my mothers parents. I learned everything in life from my grandfather and grandmother They raised me they fought the state and my mother and my father and finally got me back when that fuck died. Was with them from birth till about 5.
My Grandfather was not a perfect man by any means. He was a product of his time. Had a savage for a father and took care of his whole family since he was a kid. He became who he was and earned the way he knew how. From his peak up until a few years ago he was worth 4 to 5 million with everything else paid. Real estate all that shit. Hard cash worth was 4 5 throughout his years till fairly recently. They got about 270 grand left and live in a nice apartment on the Jersey Shore. I pay for. He's on his way out has been for years. My grandmother still kicking like a bat out hell and is still able to care for him and herself. I watched my whole life people kiss his fucking ass always with their fucking hands out. All of them scared to death of him couldnt stand the person he was but they were always around circling every fucking holiday every weekend on todt hill kissing ass at the pool. Giving sob stories borrowing money never paying it back.
He did this often. Would drive me batshit on the streets. Guy would owe 75 000 and my gf say let it go forget it. It's not worth it. As I got older fuck that shit you are fucking paying. This one degenerate fuck owed over 150 still does plus the interest. I told my grandfather the motherfucker is gambling 3 400 a day at the trotters in Monticello and you want to let it go. He says JoJo stfu and listen THAT prick lost his ass lost everything You want me to go grab 300 dollars off him for that debt. For What so he can get drunk go home beat the shit out of his kids and wife. I don't need that shit on my soul I got Enough. I learned Mercy from Grandfather my Father had zero. So im in the middle.
Anybow now their is No One Around . Except me. I drive or fly 2 a month to stay at least 3 4 days with them a month. Because that bitch made me move to this fucking Chicago fuckhole. And we walk on tbe beach like we always did he can only go a few blocks and hes done. Thinks Im his dead brother sometimes and i play along because it makes him happy for awhile. He made his Son and Daughter Rich. My mothers got her own fuckin problems always has another bill 4 life ive had .His pos son sold his last house underneath them and tried to put them in a nursing home. Cunt wouldn't look at him wrong his whole life now balls like that. He's got Millions owes it all to him. Sees them half an hour week lives 4 blocks away in a castle on the Ocean. The weekend Home.
The point is this. Fuck a will. Fuck it all. In the end it comes down to is the ones you love there with you at the end. And the ones worried about the will and fighting are the fucks that should be going in THE grave immediately along side you. None of this mean shit. The problem is most don't know that till their on their own deathbed. Me I dont have THAT fucking problem anymore. When they die Im done. Wouldn't want a dollar from it. Their life is what Meant something to me. What the fuck they owned meant fucking nothing. It's reasons like this i never felt bad opening somebody's fucking head. 90 percent on the inside are garbage
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Post by crossfire on May 17, 2017 6:09:43 GMT -5
End rant. Long month. Go fuck yourselves except op in this instance 1 time I think I saw this line in a Hallmark card once.  |
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Post by maury77 on May 17, 2017 6:16:53 GMT -5
To the original poster, my condolences on your loss.
The advice to get a living will is sound, but you also need to get your power of attorney and health care directive taken care of. A lot of people make the mistake of only thinking about a will, which is important, but only takes effect once you pass away. You want to make sure you are protected when you are alive and sick. I'm an estate planning attorney and I have seen nightmares happen when people don't get their affairs in order.
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Post by JStokes on May 17, 2017 10:41:06 GMT -5
I wish I had an Advance Directive for Ragu.
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Post by Chesapeakejet on May 17, 2017 13:38:12 GMT -5
Late to the party?
Anywho, sorry bxjetfan for your loss. My sister-in-law died when she was 36. Ovarian cancer. Never went to the doctor until she was on deaths doorstep. Add that to your living will lesson, go get your check ups regularly!
Tim
PS - Rags, you are the ultimate example of "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger." You have an "I don't give a shit attitude" and with what you've been through, I don't blame you a fuckin' bit! ROCK ON!
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Post by maury77 on May 18, 2017 6:45:13 GMT -5
Late to the party? Anywho, sorry bxjetfan for your loss. My sister-in-law died when she was 36. Ovarian cancer. Never went to the doctor until she was on deaths doorstep. Add that to your living will lesson, go get your check ups regularly!
Tim PS - Rags, you are the ultimate example of "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger." You have an "I don't give a shit attitude" and with what you've been through, I don't blame you a fuckin' bit! ROCK ON! I've never understood people that stay away from the doctor. Call me a hypochondriac, but I run to the doctor for almost everything. if something is wrong with me, catch that shit early and get to work on it. |
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