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Post by Warfish on Feb 15, 2017 22:18:33 GMT -5
How the fuck does this happen, and how the fuck do you pass it down to your kids? Circle of abuse. The abused grow up to abuse. Repeat ad neasuem...
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Post by Sonny Werblin on Feb 16, 2017 8:06:13 GMT -5
It would, if all homosexuals were molested. Well, if they weren't, why would they choose to be gay? The Nature vs Nurture debate is truly never ending. Are we who and what we are because of our genetic programming? Or, are we programmed by our life experiences? As with everything, following absolutes never helps you arrive at a rational answer to anything. So, I think we should acknowledge that it is a little bit of both.
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Post by Sonny Werblin on Feb 16, 2017 8:12:20 GMT -5
Only thing I can think of is it fucks with their heads so badly that their view of relationships like that is normal. Unless they get help and break the cycle. Sexual imprinting is the process by which a young animal learns the characteristics of a desirable mate. Sadly, when a young person, whose brain is still forming is molested, this is "imprinted" into their brain the correct way to go about things. Disgusting and sad, but almost impossible to change. Has anyone ever studied the child victims of serial molestation? Is there a reason some children become victims of pedophiles while others avoid it? Are the characteristics that make them a victim of the pedophile, the same characteristics that lead them to become pedophiles? Please note that I am NOT blaming the victim. I'm just seeking a better understanding of the cycle. Clearly, not all victims of serial molestation become pedophiles themselves. Larry Lessig is an excellent example of a victim who clearly was not "imprinted".
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Post by Jets Things on Feb 16, 2017 8:40:13 GMT -5
Well, if they weren't, why would they choose to be gay? The Nature vs Nurture debate is truly never ending. Are we who and what we are because of our genetic programming? Or, are we programmed by our life experiences? As with everything, following absolutes never helps you arrive at a rational answer to anything. So, I think we should acknowledge that it is a little bit of both. Eh, I was only joking. I also believe it's a combination and think it's ridiculous that some people, defending god, would never "make" a gay person, so they had to choose to be that way.
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Post by Raoul Duke on Feb 16, 2017 9:20:28 GMT -5
Only thing I can think of is it fucks with their heads so badly that their view of relationships like that is normal. Unless they get help and break the cycle. Sexual imprinting is the process by which a young animal learns the characteristics of a desirable mate. Sadly, when a young person, whose brain is still forming is molested, this is "imprinted" into their brain the correct way to go about things. Disgusting and sad, but almost impossible to change. So BB saw his father cheat on his taxes and his mother cheating on his father. IMPRINTED!!!
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Post by Ff2 on Feb 16, 2017 9:44:54 GMT -5
It would, if all homosexuals were molested. Well, if they weren't, why would they choose to be gay? I would guess the fabulous clothes?
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Post by Ff2 on Feb 16, 2017 9:48:30 GMT -5
Sexual imprinting is the process by which a young animal learns the characteristics of a desirable mate. Sadly, when a young person, whose brain is still forming is molested, this is "imprinted" into their brain the correct way to go about things. Disgusting and sad, but almost impossible to change. So BB saw his father cheat on his taxes and his mother cheating on his father. IMPRINTED!!! More like when parents are Jets fans and pass it on to the kids. You know you are in for a lifetime of pain and disappointment...but..you...cant....change...there are 32 other options but you stay!
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Post by Jets Things on Feb 16, 2017 9:50:37 GMT -5
So BB saw his father cheat on his taxes and his mother cheating on his father. IMPRINTED!!! More like when parents are Jets fans and pass it on to the kids. You know you are in for a lifetime of pain and disappointment...but..you...cant....change...there are 32 other options but you stay! Idiot
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Post by Ff2 on Feb 16, 2017 9:56:25 GMT -5
More like when parents are Jets fans and pass it on to the kids. You know you are in for a lifetime of pain and disappointment...but..you...cant....change...there are 32 other options but you stay! Idiot What? Option #32. Give up football. Dummy.
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Post by BEAC0NJET on Feb 16, 2017 10:40:24 GMT -5
Sexual imprinting is the process by which a young animal learns the characteristics of a desirable mate. Sadly, when a young person, whose brain is still forming is molested, this is "imprinted" into their brain the correct way to go about things. Disgusting and sad, but almost impossible to change. Has anyone ever studied the child victims of serial molestation? Is there a reason some children become victims of pedophiles while others avoid it? Are the characteristics that make them a victim of the pedophile, the same characteristics that lead them to become pedophiles? Please note that I am NOT blaming the victim. I'm just seeking a better understanding of the cycle. Clearly, not all victims of serial molestation become pedophiles themselves. Larry Lessig is an excellent example of a victim who clearly was not "imprinted". There are probably studies. I would think some children are more susceptible for a few reasons. Lessig may have been one of those people like 32 said, got help or therapy, or he was just able to see that its just not right. Maybe I watch too much L&O: SVU, but it seems kids from poor backgrounds, or absentee parents, or just in general are put in vulnerable situations tend to get victimized, and then they dont get the help after that they need. A quote from Lessig himself: "“Like all pedophiles, Hanson was really good at connecting with kids,” Lessig says. “You just felt you were together; there was no ambiguity about it. He was a friend. A deep, close friend. We talked about everything. He told me about music. He told me about the world . . . For a kid cut off from everyone else in this weird universe, to have the most important person in the world give you love and approval is the greatest thing you can imagine. What else is there?”" Pedos are very good at what they do unfortunately
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Post by Ff2 on Feb 16, 2017 11:12:29 GMT -5
I knew we would get a Pedo Forum before a Podcast.
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Post by BEAC0NJET on Feb 16, 2017 12:24:45 GMT -5
Technically its a thread, not a forum, but Im just being pedantic.
We really need a youthinasia forum.
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Post by 32Green on Feb 16, 2017 14:53:31 GMT -5
Technically its a thread, not a forum, but Im just being pedantic. Just like homosexuals are not necessarily pedophiles. Or people who display peaches in a bowl.. dont necessarily eat them.
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Post by JStokes on Feb 16, 2017 15:20:08 GMT -5
Technically its a thread, not a forum, but Im just being pedantic. We really need a youthinasia forum. I started it in the Draft Forum where there are a bunch of threads started as seperate "Forums" on different players. I was going for larfs (thread title--not content). Loses it's context without the other "Forums". _
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Post by Ff2 on Feb 16, 2017 15:29:14 GMT -5
Technically its a thread, not a forum, but Im just being pedantic. We really need a youthinasia forum. I started it in the Draft Forum where there are a bunch of threads started as seperate "Forums" on different players. I was going for larfs (thread title--not content). Loses it's context without the other "Forums". _ Why would you go for laughs on a subject like pedophilia? Seems dumb.
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