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Post by Bing© in Buffalo Chairman on Apr 20, 2018 6:35:28 GMT -5
Many of you know about our Sons three fights with cancer, the last taking him 5 years ago about now.
My wife, Daughter my Son's new Bride and me were at his side, watching him take his final breath.
After running out of tears to cry, I've learned some important lessons from his passing....
I don't worry anymore at all about anything. Life's too short. Being born doesn't mean a long life...non of us know how long we really have....People rally around you when tragedy hits...and while your hurting your closest friends are near..
But most importantly time DOES heal ones soul. Acceptance and knowing that some how it will all make sense..as to why...
My Son was a great man, at 27, and I'm certain the Hampur folk would have liked him. He saw the site and thought it was twisted....
Knowing that he has gone before me and will be there to greet me before I make my fast trip to the nether world erases any fear of death I ever had.
Hug your loved ones, especially your kids today, and think of Bing. Hug them like I would have hugged my boy one last time..
Please do that for me and thanks guys..
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Post by 32Green on Apr 20, 2018 6:41:21 GMT -5
God bless, brother. Well said.
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Post by Jetworks on Apr 20, 2018 7:37:34 GMT -5
Many of you know about our Sons three fights with cancer, the last taking him 5 years ago about now. My wife, Daughter my Son's new Bride and me were at his side, watching him take his final breath. After running out of tears to cry, I've learned some important lessons from his passing.... I don't worry anymore at all about anything. Life's too short. Being born doesn't mean a long life...non of us know how long we really have....People rally around you when tragedy hits...and while your hurting your closest friends are near.. But most importantly time DOES heal ones soul. Acceptance and knowing that some how it will all make sense..as to why... My Son was a great man, at 27, and I'm certain the Hampur folk would have liked him. He saw the site and thought it was twisted.... Knowing that he has gone before me and will be there to greet me before I make my fast trip to the nether world erases any fear of death I ever had. Hug your loved ones, especially your kids today, and think of Bing. Hug them like I would have hugged my boy one last time.. Please do that for me and thanks guys.. Rough days at work the last two shifts, seeing this this morning hit me right in the feels. Wonderfully stated. |
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Post by crossfire on Apr 20, 2018 8:01:46 GMT -5
God bless you Bing. You will see him again.
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Post by Raoul Duke on Apr 20, 2018 8:24:52 GMT -5
Friggin dust in my eyes now...
Good post my friend, I remember those times...Currently on vacation with mine trying to soak in every drop of memories possible.
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Post by Peebag on Apr 20, 2018 9:30:49 GMT -5
Cancer fucking sucks.
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Post by Bing© in Buffalo Chairman on Apr 20, 2018 9:33:28 GMT -5
^ its the worst.
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Post by tkasper01 on Apr 20, 2018 10:03:22 GMT -5
Many of you know about our Sons three fights with cancer, the last taking him 5 years ago about now. My wife, Daughter my Son's new Bride and me were at his side, watching him take his final breath. After running out of tears to cry, I've learned some important lessons from his passing.... I don't worry anymore at all about anything. Life's too short. Being born doesn't mean a long life...non of us know how long we really have....People rally around you when tragedy hits...and while your hurting your closest friends are near.. But most importantly time DOES heal ones soul. Acceptance and knowing that some how it will all make sense..as to why... My Son was a great man, at 27, and I'm certain the Hampur folk would have liked him. He saw the site and thought it was twisted.... Knowing that he has gone before me and will be there to greet me before I make my fast trip to the nether world erases any fear of death I ever had. Hug your loved ones, especially your kids today, and think of Bing. Hug them like I would have hugged my boy one last time.. Please do that for me and thanks guys.. God bless you and your family Bing. As a guy going through this shit currently, I can attest to the strength and perseverance it takes to battle this fucking disease. Not just the patient. This affects the entire family in profound ways. I have to agree about the worrying. I no longer do it myself. Shrug my shoulders and move on, I got better things to spend my time on. My BP this morning was 110/52. Heart rate 61 in the Doctors offices. I really believe it is due to the new attitude toward all the BS in life. Reading your story years ago really has helped me deal with this. I bet you have really helped more people then you realize. |
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Post by Bing© in Buffalo Chairman on Apr 20, 2018 10:42:09 GMT -5
^ man you made my day. I feel for you and wish nothing but wonderful results...
You are one strong motherfucker.
The kind I'd go into Battle with proudly.
Xxooxxoo
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Post by 2foolish on Apr 20, 2018 11:36:25 GMT -5
this place will always help u get thru the rough days...a little joke...a little dance...a little seltzer in ur pants...
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Post by Gunnails on Apr 20, 2018 12:13:54 GMT -5
Time helps, but nothing can truly heal all of the pain. It is true though that it is better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all.
I agree that we all should count our blessings.
An absolutely beautiful spring day here in the PNW, I'm taking the day off to enjoy it.
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Post by thebigragu on Apr 20, 2018 12:14:42 GMT -5
I love you.
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Post by BEAC0NJET on Apr 20, 2018 13:43:27 GMT -5
Many of you know about our Sons three fights with cancer, the last taking him 5 years ago about now. My wife, Daughter my Son's new Bride and me were at his side, watching him take his final breath. After running out of tears to cry, I've learned some important lessons from his passing.... I don't worry anymore at all about anything. Life's too short. Being born doesn't mean a long life...non of us know how long we really have....People rally around you when tragedy hits...and while your hurting your closest friends are near.. But most importantly time DOES heal ones soul. Acceptance and knowing that some how it will all make sense..as to why... My Son was a great man, at 27, and I'm certain the Hampur folk would have liked him. He saw the site and thought it was twisted.... Knowing that he has gone before me and will be there to greet me before I make my fast trip to the nether world erases any fear of death I ever had. Hug your loved ones, especially your kids today, and think of Bing. Hug them like I would have hugged my boy one last time.. Please do that for me and thanks guys.. God bless Bing. I just got back from visiting my mom in the hospital, shes 79 and fighting MDS. Cancers a bitch  Toughest woman Ive ever met, but the end is near. Trying to see her as much as possible, and take advantage of what I didnt get, when my dad passed suddenly. |
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Post by BEAC0NJET on Apr 20, 2018 13:44:36 GMT -5
Many of you know about our Sons three fights with cancer, the last taking him 5 years ago about now. My wife, Daughter my Son's new Bride and me were at his side, watching him take his final breath. After running out of tears to cry, I've learned some important lessons from his passing.... I don't worry anymore at all about anything. Life's too short. Being born doesn't mean a long life...non of us know how long we really have....People rally around you when tragedy hits...and while your hurting your closest friends are near.. But most importantly time DOES heal ones soul. Acceptance and knowing that some how it will all make sense..as to why... My Son was a great man, at 27, and I'm certain the Hampur folk would have liked him. He saw the site and thought it was twisted.... Knowing that he has gone before me and will be there to greet me before I make my fast trip to the nether world erases any fear of death I ever had. Hug your loved ones, especially your kids today, and think of Bing. Hug them like I would have hugged my boy one last time.. Please do that for me and thanks guys.. God bless you and your family Bing. As a guy going through this shit currently, I can attest to the strength and perseverance it takes to battle this fucking disease. Not just the patient. This affects the entire family in profound ways. I have to agree about the worrying. I no longer do it myself. Shrug my shoulders and move on, I got better things to spend my time on. My BP this morning was 110/52. Heart rate 61 in the Doctors offices. I really believe it is due to the new attitude toward all the BS in life. Reading your story years ago really has helped me deal with this. I bet you have really helped more people then you realize. Keep fighting the good fight, and God Bless! |
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Post by BEAC0NJET on Apr 20, 2018 13:47:11 GMT -5
It truly is... not only for the one fighting it, but for the whole family. Im seeing it first hand. My sister is running ragged, Im logging 3 hr round trips to the hospital, we get panicked calls from the hospital at all hours. Its stressful, and I feel like a shit bird to even mention that part of it, because my mom's going through the real fight. |
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